The Top Skill to Develop for 2025 - Choose Your State of Being

The top skill to have for 2025 must be tangible, yes? It must be a skill that can make you a lot of money and buy you a house and cars and mean that you won't have to work for the rest of your life, right? It has to be the best thing the world has never seen before, something epic, something all the billionaires and trillionaires use daily, right?

Wrong.

This skill I have been looking at, studying, deciphering, and trying to use to no avail for years with no success. I was reading all the books I could get my hands on, praying to all the gods, doing all the meditation and listening to all the frequencies I could find while using chakra cleansing stones during yoga Nidra sessions. I listened to all the gurus and did everything step-by-step, with no success.

There is no gaining of success. That's a part that I didn't realize. You don't GET success. It's not something to be obtained. Only in looking back and quantifying can you see whether or not you have been successful.

Which means success happens in each moment.

As does contentment, gratitude, and love.

These are all states of being.

And your state cannot fluctuate due to circumstance. Your state must remain constant.

Your state must also be identified. This is the key. This is the skill. Consciously choosing, directing and remaining in the state desired regardless of circumstance.

You ready? Let's dive into the key points.

1. You must choose your state and consciously stay there.

   
   

This is the basic part of the skill. It's the most important part as well, because most of us can't identify with the state we've chosen, the state we think we desire.

My biggest issue was having to identify with this placid state of gratitude and abundance. What does that feel like? To me, it felt like nothing. It felt like I had to just be grateful every day and smile and pretend inside that I was some millionaire.

Maybe for you, that's what you can identify with. But not me. And that's why my state always fluctuated.

I identify with something different. I identify with beating my chest, walking up and down the sidewalk or the middle of the street letting the world have it. Letting everyone know I won. Whether I actually do that or not is irrelevant, but that feeling of winning a championship, of getting what I finally deserved is one that I could heavily identify with.

This is the feeling I would chase through doing things. I thought that doing all the things right would finally land me the jackpot I sought, and that I would be able to celebrate, ONE DAY.

The feeling is what I sought after. But the feeling was there the entire time. It was a state that I could enter. A state of being victorious over circumstance, victorious regardless of circumstance. Knowing that I am the man regardless of what is happening outside. This inner state of being comes from the space in every single atom, in the nucleus where the protons and electrons spiral around, creating a spin or charge that creates molecules. Matter and energy are interchangeable, which means that at the quantum level, those particles are wavelengths, and the wavelengths, particles. So, our state of being is our vibration, our frequency, and that's what goes out into the world.

2. You must consciously direct your subconscious, always.

There are two times when your subconscious must be directed on purpose, and the rest of the time is a matter of being conscious of your state, separating your charged emotions from what is going on.

First, when you wake up in the morning from sleep, you are extremely open to direction subconsciously. What you ingest in the first 15-30 minutes of your morning is what sets the course for your day.

Second, before bed at night, the same 15-30 minutes before you fall asleep is just as important as the morning.

For these sessions, you must find a way to inject your subconscious with the state of being you desire to be in. For me, realizing I was already victorious, that I already was what I was seeking was such a massive change in my life. No phones, no loud music, nothing confusing should be happening. Those first and last 15-30 minutes should allow you to plant seeds into your subconscious mind.

During the day, you must seek to remain constant. Picture yourself having an aura, or a flame surrounding you. This flame is made up of your vibration, your feeling, your energy. Does this flame shift, wave and change due to outside circumstances. Does it go out with every little blow of the wind? You must protect your state of being at all costs. Constantly change negative to positive by being aware of what is affecting your state.

3. Accept yourself.

This is by far the biggest change I went through in 2024. I am who I am. I feel how I feel, and while I can control how I feel, it helps to understand why I feel the way I do.

If you feel the way you do because of circumstance, you will always feel like everything is out of your control. You will never be satisfied, content, grateful, or abundant, much less like a winner. You will always seek answers and look to echo chambers for other people going through what you are going through, so you don't feel alone.

In accepting myself, I accepted how I like to dress, how I like to present myself, and the things I like to do. This was a big change from someone who always sought the approval of others, and always wanted to appear the way that would make others like me.

In loving myself, I accept who I am, what I desire, and therefore also accept that other people and the world in general reflects who I am. It vibrates at the frequency that I vibrate.

You are either in the state you desire, or you are not. You are vibrating at the frequency that you desire, or you are not. Either you love yourself, or you do not love yourself. The choice is completely yours.

Living in the desired state persistently is the #1 skill to develop in 2025. Follow my channels for my insight and see you soon.